Henk van den Dikkenberg

Sometimes a relationship requires a new view of what is going on between partners.

You may find yourself running into the same conflicts over and over. You might feel a lack of intimacy or distance and you do not longer experience the relationship as a place for vulnerability and connection.

You might already have tried a lot together, but you ‘ll end up in the same discussions over and over again. It appears to be difficult to change patterns because they have become part of the relationship.

Together we can explore and clarify those patterns and look for new ways of interacting with each other.

New respectful patterns can evolve in the relationship. Differences between partners will be able to be, without turning into conflicts or distance.

As a therapist I work with IBCT (Integrative Behavioral Couples Therapy), a method in which acceptance and tolerance are the basis for the conversations. IBCT offers new ways to respectfully deal with the differences in a relationship.

Getting excited in stepping into your future. That is the essence of what my coaching is about.

We all know moments where we lack the spirit of moving on. Or we get stuck in something and do not know how to take the next step. 

I am happy to guide in this proces to make a shift. We always get to the essence in a practical and experienced based way. We will meet the obstacles and explore new approaches.

A personal values survey is also part of the coaching. Clarifying your inner focus will then lead to committed actions. When our committed actions are aligned with what we truly want to do, we get excited again.

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